I just recently joined the ISEPP Discussion Group.
It is a relief to read stories, find others who know what is happening, have the same concerns and can talk about it.
I have been alone (some connections online) but mostly I am around people who do not understand the deep concerns and insights I have.
I come at this issue of human wellbeing from being the eldest sister, a daughter and then mother whose been living in the trenches, taking care of the well-being of those around me. I particularly want to find a way to be more active for those in need, especially children, but I’m not an official, credentialed ‘mental health professional’. Actually, in truth, I have 40 years of experience taking care of the overall health of people which does make me a professional, but the work of mothers still goes uncounted and unrecognized for what it is and how important it is.
I especially understand how different what is learned from mothers whose job of well-being spans a 24 hour period daily versus people who seek to help well-being through employment that limits contacts to usually 1 hour at a time and weeks in between. The same information does not apply to the care and well-being of people in these different situations.
I have wondered if there a support group for mothers on this issue?
Is there a network of mothers within? Someone to call and talk to about the personal aspects of it?
I am in need of some emotional support.
If you have any recommendations on how I might get some emotional support for my work, let me know.
I’m new to ISEPP.
I have a one and 1/2-year-old grandson whose mother, my daughter-in-law had been diagnosed as depressed and given medications since she was 9. She’s now 27. She went off meds for her pregnancy.
At the moment, I watch my grandson while she works. She has a strong relationship of trust with her doctors so even though she’s heard a few things from me she seems too afraid to be open to alternatives. While I’ve been observing and dealing with the issues she has as a mother and the impact on the baby, my biggest fear is that because of her lack of emotional skills and her own experience, that she will end up medicating my grandson at some point simply because of her over reliance on doctors and lack of skill, knowledge and experience as mother…… as she already relies on medications, in my view, inappropriately.
I’m also at a heads up state about how her use of medications may impact and has impacted the babies health.
So far, things are pretty good for him, but a few things are keeping me on alert as he’s still young in his development. I’ve been compensating to help in many ways from my own years of experience.
The underlying issues, as you may well know, is the inheritance of abuse, violence, poverty and oppression which is so common and still denied for so many of us. It’s been only 2 or 3 generations ago that children were to be seen and not heard and I believe that no mental health can exist with such an oppression for children.
And it these children a few generations ago that became adults and created our world. In that transmission through the generations, things were lost in the same way today we have lost the ability to have readily clean water for our well-being.
So I’m dealing with the intergenerational aspects – fore-parents, grandparents, parents, children, future children.
I dealt with where I was as a child and adult child as a result of my grandmother being a domestic violence victim, with my mother’s childhood, homelessness which happened to her in a time men were not required to pay child support.
I came to solve the issues that I had inherited and worked out the problems I had with her because of her victimization of abuse, poverty and oppression. Those effects on her were part of her mothering me, and now today I am the grandmother.
While there is much that has changed and I have changed things, there is much to be done.
If there is not a mother’s group organized around this issue, perhaps we can begin one.




Upcoming Child Advocacy Event: Third Annual Candlelight Vigil in Memory of Gabriel Myers April 16, 2012
Uploaded by CCHRfloridaon Feb 22, 2012
This is the story of Gabriel Myers: On April 16, 2009, 7-year-old Gabriel Myers apparently hanged himself in the residence of his foster parents. In February and March 2009, Gabriel experienced a number of significant events in life, including changes in foster homes, therapists, after-school programs, loss of privileges at home, and visitation arrangements with his mother.
CBS4 news partner The Miami Herald has reported Myers had been taking powerful, psychotropic medications. Some of the drugs are not approved for use in children by the Food & Drug Administration. Three of the drugs come with strong warnings that they can increase the risk of suicide in children.
The three medications that were prescribed to Gabriel were Vyvanse, Lexapro and Symbyax. Gabriel was prescribed the drug Symbyax, which comes with the strongest warning the FDA issues regarding potential for suicide in child.
No signed consent form was maintained in the medical records. Attend our vigil in Gabriel’s name and for all of Florida’s children in State care.
Child advocates are encouraged to attend the Third Annual Candlelight Vigil in the name of Gabriel Myers and the right to Informed Consent taking place on Monday, April 16, 2012 at three different locations across the state of Florida.
Click here to read more or visit www.cchrflorida.org
If you are a journalist seeking mental health or legal professionals as media commentators on issues related to the overuse of psychiatric medications on children in foster care, please click here for ISEPP contact information.
Posted by isepp on February 23, 2012
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